Aissa And Hank Norris
I always enjoyed the chats or should I say “listens” with Marilynn when the family was together at the farm for something or at a party. We usually shared our health struggles but the conversation usually came around to the kids (and grandkids). She talked about what talents Ryan had and what he was up to lately. She felt he was an amazing artist and I too had to agree. Then the conversations went on to Erin and her busy life with the day care children. She recognized Erin’s passion for kids early on and was glad she followed her heart with all the babies. I know that she appreciated having Erin so close and she liked having time with her no matter what they were up to. I think her kids meant everything to her and she didn’t mind sharing about them to everyone.
But then came the grandkids! She seemed to always know the scoop on what was happening with each of them. The girls were the loves of her life and I think she liked to talk about their outfits or Megan hair changes. Both she would talk about their accomplishments in school and the once out of school it was about their jobs and future plans.
She was so proud of Gavin’s choice to serve but couldn't wait for Megan and he to be back home from the military and be close to home. I think she really missed Meg’s attention and visits.
She loved hearing Lindsay sing and her now being a choir director made her so happy. She knew she was following her passion. Her also being away from home was tough but she was always looking forward to have a trip for a visit once she felt better.
Then there was Joey. She counted on him to be the voice of reason or should I say to hold down the fort. I honestly believe that although she wanted to make her own decisions she listened to Joe. She thought Joey and Carly were perfect for each other and I of course agreed. We were both looking forward to all the kids eventually having children and watching these “kids” become parents.
This past year, the couple times I got to see her and visit, I knew she felt poorly but she was still stubborn about doing what she wanted and being on her own. It was what she knew and she liked it that way.
I will miss her and our talks (my listens) but I know she is resting peacefully with no more pain and will be waiting for family when they too transition to the new neighborhood.
God Bless you all with peace and very happy memories.
With Sympathy
Aissa and Hank Norris
