I was so saddened by Tom's sudden departure from us, as are so many. He was our daughter-in-law's (Tori's) dad. That's the only way I thought of him until March of 2020 when our family began meeting for dinner @ noon every Sunday, when everything shut down. Tom was also part of our Sunday dinner group, so I've come to think of him as part of our family. So, we've seen him every Sunday for well over a year, with few exceptions. While I'd be cooking or cleaning up the dishes, many times he would stand in the kitchen & we'd have a long conversation. During the meal, he always came back for seconds! We came to know him as a very kind, intelligent, thoughtful man, with a good sense of humor, who loved his daughters and granddaughter, especially. And, he was always very appreciative. We will miss his presence with us. I'm so thankful that we got to know him during this period of time and will miss him greatly.
I especially wish Tori and Kat strength during this time of grief and may the Lord comfort you and guide you as you navigate through all the details that will need to be handled. Love to the whole family.