Gary L. Friend's Obituary
Decatur-Gary L. Friend, 73, of Decatur, passed away Monday, October 3, 2011 at his home.
Funeral Liturgy to celebrate Gary's life will be 11:30 a.m. Friday, October 7, 2011 at Graceland/Fairlawn Funeral Home with Father David Peters, Celebrant. Visitation will be for one hour prior to the services at the funeral home. Interment will be in Graceland Cemetery. Memorial contributions may be made to the American Cancer Society.
Gary was born June 10, 1938 in Decatur, the son of John Franklin and Edith (Spicer) Friend. He was previously employed as a carpenter at Morgan Sash and Door retiring after thirty-seven years of service. He was a member of Saints James & Patrick Parish and enjoyed fishing with his brother and spending time with his family. He married Sandra Jean Grindol June 17, 1961 in Decatur. She preceded him in death January 23, 1994.
He leaves behind his daughter, Amy Sweitzer and husband Gary of Decatur, sister, Carol Jones and husband Ed of Decatur, granddaughter, Lindsay, nieces, Diana, Julie, Andrea, Shelly, and Kim, nephew, Jeff, and special niece, Susie.
He was reunited in Heaven with his parents, wife, brother, Ron, and sister-in-law, Sharon Rettke.
Dad, you were the most loving, gentle man that there ever was, no one was a more devoted son, brother, husband, and father. I am so glad God made you my Dad. Your most precious joy was being PaPa to Lindsay. She will always have such precious memories of you. You deserve all the happiness and peace God can bestow. I will miss you and you have all my love forever and ever.
The family would like to give a special thanks to Carl and Sharon, Dan, and Harold for being such special friends all of these years.
The family of Gary L. Friend is being served by the Graceland/Fairlawn Funeral Home, 2091 N. Oakland Ave. Decatur, IL. Please view the online obituary, send condolences, and share memories at www.gracelandfairlawn.com.
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